Many women believe that they are the only one they know who has had an abortion. Few people talk about it because of the shame and embarrassment they feel. As a result, many women and men are suffering in silence.

In reality, statistics suggest 1 in 4 women will have an abortion by age 45. While you are not alone, how you came to the decision to have an abortion is unique. First Care recognizes that your path for healing will be unique as well.

Whether the abortion you had was weeks ago or decades ago, it may still be affecting you. Below is a list of questions that can help you identify if you are struggling with a past abortion:

• Are you depressed?
• Have you experienced nightmares or flashbacks related to the abortion?
• Do you feel like a “bad person” or a hypocrite because of your decision?
• Do you have increased alcohol or drug use to help numb your feelings?
• Have you experienced any self-harm, eating disorders, or suicidal thoughts?
• Do you have deep regrets about your abortion decision?
• Do you struggle with guilt, shame, grief, or anger?
• Are you keeping the abortion a secret, stuffing it away so you don’t have to deal with it?
• Do you feel like God could never forgive you?

If you answered yes to any of the above questions, the abortion may still be affecting you. Please reach out to speak to one of our staff about your unique circumstances. All inquiries are confidential.

Through our Conquerors program, you can find a safe, non-judgmental, confidential place to begin the healing process and work through the abortion. The program is led by women who have had abortions and can relate to your experience.

The Conquerors program offers healing through support groups or individual mentoring. The Conquerors group program is 9 weeks long with groups held in locations around the Twin Cities and Rochester. Mentoring is available to individuals or couples who are struggling with their past decision.

www.ConquerorsAfterAbortion.org