What Can I Do if My Partner Wants an Abortion, but I Want to Keep the Baby

An unexpected pregnancy is stressful. You’re dealing not only with the discovery, but also with the many physical and emotional changes in your body. The last thing you need is pressure from your partner to make one decision over another.

The good news is that you are the only one who gets to choose what to do. No one can legally force you to make a particular choice.

If you’re finding yourself needing someone to talk to about your pregnancy, your partner, and the pressure you’re feeling, we’re available. We also have many services and resources to support you throughout your pregnancy.

Schedule an appointment today.

How Do I Recognize If I’m Being Pressured?

Are you feeling like your partner isn’t listening to you? Your partner can pressure you in many different ways. Are you experiencing any of the following?

• He wants you to make a quick decision and insists you make an appointment at an abortion clinic immediately.
• He blames you for the pregnancy and how it will inconvenience him.
• He refuses to listen to any other options.
• He views your opinions as ignorant or ridiculous.
• He threatens to leave you if you don’t make the choice he wants you to make.

A supportive, caring partner discusses the situation thoroughly with you. They listen to your concerns, hopes, and desires.

If you feel threatened in any way, we encourage you to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at (800) 799-SAFE (7233). It’s free, confidential, and available 24/7. They provide a lot of helpful information, including how to have a safe and healthy relationship.

What Services Do You Offer to Help Me?

You can receive a free lab-quality pregnancy test at First Care, whether you walk in or schedule an appointment at any one of our locations. Even if you’ve taken an at-home pregnancy test, it’s vital to retest to ensure the same results.

You’ll want to have a free and confidential ultrasound exam. An ultrasound determines how far along you are, makes sure the pregnancy is located in the uterus, and determines if the pregnancy is progressing as expected.

We provide free and confidential ultrasounds following a positive pregnancy test.

Once we’ve confirmed your pregnancy, we can discuss all of your options. We’ll provide you with community resources and referrals for medical insurance, prenatal care, financial support, and other helpful resources.

You can also sign up for prenatal and childbirth classes and receive baby essentials, including diapers, wipes, baby clothing, and necessary equipment. We’re here to support you in any way possible.

Schedule an Appointment Right Away

Currently, we have five locations to serve you. Visit the location nearest you or call or text us at (651) 424-0303 for more information. Remember, no one has the right to tell you what to do with your pregnancy. This is your decision and yours alone.

Please let us know how we can help you. Let us provide the care you need first. Come to First Care because you, your pregnancy, and your future matter to us.